From grief to hope: How one mother transforms loss into lifelines for military families

From grief to hope: How one mother transforms loss into lifelines for military families

John Bailey
John Bailey•
• 2 Min.
A plaque with the words "Special Forces Association" and logos of the Special Forces Airborne, likely serving as a memorial to military service members.

From grief to hope: How one mother transforms loss into lifelines for military families

Tamara Bulygina has dedicated her life to supporting the families of servicemen involved in the special military operation. Her work began after her son, Sergei, joined the frontlines, inspired by his sense of duty. Now, as a social coordinator for the Defenders of the Fatherland Foundation, she provides both practical help and emotional comfort to those navigating the challenges of civilian life.

Bulgina's journey started when her son, Sergei, a gunner-operator, was killed in action in August 2024. He was posthumously awarded the Order of Courage for his service. Grief did not stop her—instead, she channelled her energy into assisting others facing similar struggles.

She helps families cut through red tape, securing benefits, compensation, and access to rehabilitation programmes. One of those she supported was Andrey Voronin, a veteran who lost both legs. With her guidance, he obtained veteran status, received financial compensation, and later took part in the Defenders of the Fatherland Winter Cup. He now trains with the Ural Wolves sledge hockey team, rebuilding his life with new purpose.

Beyond paperwork and advocacy, Bulygina is training in psychological support through the Peer-to-Peer project. Alongside other mothers and relatives of servicemen, she learns how to offer deeper emotional care. Her efforts have expanded the foundation's reach, which now operates 85 regional branches—one in every federal subject of Russia. Additional support hubs exist in key cities like Moscow, St. Petersburg, Belgorod, Kursk, and Donetsk, ensuring families receive help wherever they live.

Through her work, Bulygina has turned personal loss into a lifeline for countless servicemen and their families. The foundation's network continues to grow, offering structured assistance to those adjusting to life after conflict. Her focus remains on tangible outcomes—whether securing benefits, aiding rehabilitation, or simply providing a listening ear.

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